web analytics

Financial Slaves Training Vanilla Women

Posted By On 01 Jun 2011. Under controversial topic  Tags: , ,   

Financial Slaves Training Vanilla Women In Lifestyle of Fin Domme

insta dommeI’ve noticed a trend of ‘financial slaves’ who are investing their time (& money) on training vanilla woman from social sites on how to be a Financial Domme. Be it someone they know solely as a friend, or a random hottie they come across. I have seen countless mentions of this in Fem Domme social circles and forums, as well as hearing first hand from subs who I speak with.

instadommes

The main agenda seems to be to create the ‘perfect’ Fem Domme, and while I acknowledge different subs are going to respond to different types of Dommes, I find the whole thing is really just a situation for a man to remain in control.

I think the true underlining motive is not to find the perfect fit nor to empower a woman, but rather to feel superior and in control by telling a woman what you want and her providing it. I believe these men feel some satisfaction in introducing different vanilla woman to the Financial Domination lifestyle. He gets to see her discovering power and control for probably the first time (akin to virginity here), he gets to guide her on how to behave and how not to behave for his own personal desires and her being completely inexperienced and new has no clue that he’s actually training her to be HIS pleasure-bot. All she knows is that gifts and cash are being tossed her way and she’s loving it.

I have no problem with newbies either, I have helped more than my share just as any confident Domme does.

That is not the point of this piece, I’m more just curious how other Dommes feel about financial slaves bringing in seemingly vanilla women to the scene. Are they doing it because they want to top from the bottom or do they sincerely have an interest in seeing women succeed?

  • Spoiledprincesskarlie

    I think it’s a way for them to top from the bottom. Because as long as the cash flows and she’s learning her power over him then it’s all good, but if he doesn’t like the empowered woman that she may become then he gets pissed and stops spending.

  • http://twitter.com/billyinc1 billyinc1

    i have helped some vanilla Women in the past in order to improve their self confindence and to see how men can be used for Her benefit only. i am happy to say some have succeeded nicely. 

  • http://twitter.com/FlawlessMelissa Flawless Melissa

    I agree with the top from the bottom, they want girls they can train to be what they want, not even close to female domination, and helping someone find there selfs as a dominat is not training them for what you like personally. Just my two cents, as i never comment, dont care to get comments back.

  • Anon

    I had actually been involved with the BDSM lifestyle for a while before being approached by a financial slave on a nilla site. He was quite shocked, but very turned on, that I knew what he was talking about when he broached the subject with me. My first experiences of findomme were with this guy.
    I know several vanilla women who I’m willing to bet would make excellent dommes. Sometimes girls have it in them but have NO clue about the lifestyle.

  • Missvdeville

    I believe that they want to top from the bottom. I think they also want to mold these girls into it. However, I have seen some subs say that its because the new girls seem so excited about it. Everything is new to these vanilla girls, and they get a kick out of it. 

    I suppose us seasoned vets in their eyes don’t.

    Shit. Been doing this going on eight years! I will never tire of it. 

    Great post! 

  • Nice2think

    Valentine Deville did NOT write the above comment.. I wonder why someone is pretending to be her here? What sort of fraudulent site has this become?

  • guest

    Just because someone writes a comment as someone else doesn’t mean the site is fraudulent, it happens ALL over the web. The previous owner had people posting on his columns as someone they were not just to cause drama and get traffic.

  • Mistress Rage

    I agree completely!

« 
 »